{"id":320,"date":"2026-05-28T07:04:18","date_gmt":"2026-05-28T07:04:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/modernloveplaybook.com\/?p=320"},"modified":"2026-05-28T07:04:18","modified_gmt":"2026-05-28T07:04:18","slug":"the-only-dating-advice-youll-ever-need-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/modernloveplaybook.com\/?p=320","title":{"rendered":"The Only Dating Advice You&#8217;ll Ever Need!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"480\" height=\"270\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4725seBpMh8\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>\u25ba\u25ba Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums<br \/>\nReserve Your Spot to My Virtual Event for FREE. . .<br \/>\n\u2192 http:\/\/www.LoveLifeTraining.com<\/p>\n<p>\u25bc<br \/>\nDon\u2019t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now.<br \/>\nI post new love life advice for you every weekend.<\/p>\n<p>\u25bc<\/p>\n<p>You may not know this, but you probably have an unconscious dating mindset.<\/p>\n<p>We all do. It might be learned from our parents, an early relationship, or any other kind of formative childhood experience, but it affects so much of our behavior when we meet someone we like.<\/p>\n<p>In today\u2019s new video, I\u2019m going to share 3 of the most dangerous dating mindsets to avoid, and one powerful mindset that will let you enjoy the process while naturally attracting the person you really want.<\/p>\n<p>\u25ba\u25ba Pre-Order My New Book, &#8220;Love Life&#8221; at \u2192 http:\/\/www.LoveLifeBook.com<\/p>\n<p>\u25ba\u25ba FREE Video Training: \u201cDating With Results\u201d \u2192 http:\/\/www.DatingWithResults.com<\/p>\n<p>\u25bc Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me\u2026 \u25bc<\/p>\n<p>Blog \u2192 https:\/\/www.matthewhussey.com\/blog\/<\/p>\n<p>Facebook \u2192 https:\/\/facebook.com\/CoachMatthewHussey<\/p>\n<p>Instagram \u2192 https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/thematthewhussey<\/p>\n<p>Twitter \u2192 https:\/\/twitter.com\/matthewhussey<\/p>\n<p>\u25bc Chapters \u25bc<\/p>\n<p>0:00 \u2013 0:19 \u2013 Three Types That Struggle in Dating<br \/>\n0:19 \u2013 2:06 \u2013 The Skater: Jumping From One Person to the Next<br \/>\n2:06 \u2013 3:01 \u2013 The Avoidance of Pain<br \/>\n3:01 \u2013 4:10 \u2013 The Sinker: Anxiously Attached<br \/>\n4:10 \u2013 4:51 \u2013 First Principles of Getting Commitment<br \/>\n4:51 \u2013 5:30 \u2013 No Room Left for Needs<br \/>\n5:30 \u2013 6:13 \u2013 The Sideliner: Taking Themselves Out of the Game<br \/>\n6:13 \u2013 7:29 \u2013 Archetypes at Different Stages<br \/>\n7:29 \u2013 8:17 \u2013 \u201cI\u2019m Done With Dating\u201d<br \/>\n8:17 \u2013 9:12 \u2013 Learning to Love the Process<br \/>\n9:12 \u2013 10:15 \u2013 Becoming a Swimmer<br \/>\n10:15 \u2013 11:04 \u2013 Staying Hopeful<br \/>\n11:04 \u2013 12:08 \u2013 Finding More Joy in the Dating Process<br \/>\n12:08 \u2013 13:12 \u2013 Focus on Connecting<br \/>\n13:12 \u2013 13:51 \u2013 Putting Your Love Life on a Path to Success<br \/>\n13:51 \u2013 15:45 \u2013 The Antidote<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u25ba\u25ba Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums Reserve Your Spot to My Virtual Event for FREE. . . \u2192 http:\/\/www.LoveLifeTraining.com [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":321,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-320","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v17.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/modernloveplaybook.com\/?p=320\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"The Only Dating Advice You&#039;ll Ever Need! 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